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In article <3vmp2a$...@pine.can.net>, Shiloh Costa <ap...@torfree.net> wrote:
:In article <3vcg3u$...@poiju.uwasa.fi>, t...@poiju.uwasa.fi says...
:>In article <dmurdoch.2386.30194...@mast.queensu.ca>,
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:>Duncan Murdoch <dmurd...@mast.queensu.ca> wrote:
:>:to do? Post your question to a newsgroup, and present it in such a way that
:>:people will read it; don't try to "jump the queue" by emailing someone who has
:If it bothered you so much, why didn't you hit the "Delete key" as Duncan
:suggests? Why not send me one of your automated messages that has a
:{*word*193} tone?
On rereading this from the news I am more and more taken aback by
your message. Your emailed question did not "bother me so much" and
hitting delete key, while I sometimes do it, is something I try to
avoid. As for sending _{*word*193}_ automated replies to TP questions, why
on earth would I want to do that?
:Is it really that terrible that when someone needs help with a particular
:subject that isn't covered in FAQs or answered in newsgroups that they
:go ask a public figure on the net?
Of course not. I most certainly have not cried '{*word*76}y {*word*190}' about
emailing. What I did I send you prerecorded email explaining why
posting your question was highly preferable.
:I am really shocked that you must "try to be polite". I really don't
I prefer politeness to rudeness. Simple as that.
:Believe me, I will not bother you again, and I am sorry I wasted so
:much of your time.. I understand that you label people like me "a general
You did not waste my time nor bother me. But for practical reasons I
simply cannot afford the time for every private consultation
question.
:Maybe I should have sent a query letter simply asking "may I send a message
:to you - or would that be too much of a strain on you?" Why not keep a
Oh come on. Please don't be sarcastic. There was no personal putdown
in my response.
:list of people you would like to hear from (since your good at e-mail
:automation) and bounce back all messages from unknown addresses?
That is not a practical suggestion with my email volumes. Besides I
am sure you got also to the part where is say:
"Please don't be put off by this response. I always look forward to
hearing from fellow users, and I hope that you do not hesitate to
contact me also in the future."
:I'm always looking to help someone in need, and I don't have to try
:to be polite -- I usually am.
But now, I am sorry to say bluntly, dear Shiloh, you are
substituting politeness with an unnecessary tantrum.
:P.S. A GREAT recommendation to you:
: Remove your t...@uwasa.fi e-mail address at your signature, I know
: this may sound terribly crazy, but it almost seems like you are
: inviting anyone to correspond with you if they choose.
Please don't be absurd. Email addresses do belong to signatures. The
fact that I replied to your consultation question with the
prerecorded suggestion of posting, and explaining my preference, is
certainly no reason to alter my signature.
: Otherwise, what reason would you advertise your e-mail address if
: it is private, and not to be used by "general readers" or "the
: general public"?
Not taking the time to answer each and every question I get with
personalized consultation does not make my email address private.
Besides have you any idea of the number of questions I have
answered.
: I have CC'd a copy of this message to you to make sure that you
: received it. I would be very e{*word*277}d to receive one of your
: automated messages in return - if that wouldn't be a strain.
I am baffled, Shiloh, why you are so terribly upset of my genuinely
being pressed for time and telling you so by the request to post.
There is no reason to take it as a snub to your ego, which, deducing
from your concluding sarcasm, is clearly bruised. I find this
unfair.
As you will know by now I replied to your copy individually since
this (even if not pleasant) is two-way correspondence.
All the best, Timo
P.S. My apologies to all for continuing this, but I wished to
respond to the posting even if it has momentarily taken us away from
Turbo Pascal.
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